In Singapore, many of us spend money far more often than we realise. Yet despite all that spending, many of us may not actually feel any more satisfied at the end of the month.
A $7 ice latte on the way to work. A late-night Grab food delivery because it feels deserved. A gadget on Shopee that seemed exciting for all of five minutes. None of these purchases is particularly large on its own, which is why we think we can “afford it” yet when our credit card bill arrives, we realise we have saved less than we expected, and struggle to point to anything that we bought that has genuinely improved our life.
This is increasingly common, and it reflects how modern spending has changed us.
Online shopping, cashless payments and instant delivery have made spending frictionless. For some, buying is no longer a conscientious decision but a reflex. We buy because it is easy, because the option is there in an app notification, and because the emotional distance between money leaving our account and value entering our life is no longer in sync.
With the rest of 2026 ahead of us, this makes it a good time to rethink how we spend. Not through aggressive budgeting or guilt-driven restraint, but through a simpler question inspired by Marie Kondo’s organising philosophy:
Does this spending actually bring me joy?
And if it does not, why am I doing it in the first place?
Why We Spend So Much Yet Enjoy So Little
In the past, spending was deliberate. We went out to buy something we wanted or needed. Big-ticket purchases had to be planned for. It takes time, but that intentionality helped ensure what we bought would bring joy.
Today, much of our spending happens quietly in the background of daily life.
One-click checkouts and tap-and-go payments have removed almost all friction. At the same time, many purchases are driven more by emotion than genuine desire. A stressful workday leads to convenience spending. Doomscrolling nudges us into buying things we never thought we wanted. Social comparison pushes us towards upgrades we did not know we needed.
The outcome is predictable. We spend often, but the satisfaction fades quickly. The feeling disappears because it was never something we truly needed. We buy more, but enjoy less.
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Going Marie Kondo On Your Wallet
Marie Kondo’s philosophy is simple: keep only what sparks joy. Let go of what does not.
In terms of spending, this is not about extreme frugality or forcing yourself into minimalism. It is about recognising that not all spending is equal. Some purchases will improve our lives while others exist only to soothe a momentary feeling.
The Marie Kondo approach to spending asks us to pause before buying. Will this be used regularly? Or is it simply filling a temporary emotional gap?
Habitual Versus Intentional Spending
A large portion of our spending is habitual.
We order food delivery because we are tired. We upgrade our phones because marketing tells us the improvement is essential. We keep subscriptions we barely use because cancelling feels like effort.
Habitual spending is not inherently bad. The problem is that it runs on autopilot. Over time, it creates financial leakage through many small expenses that rarely bring lasting satisfaction.
Intentional spending is slower and more reflective. It means choosing fewer things, but choosing them well.
This does not necessarily mean spending less overall. It may mean spending more on something that genuinely improves daily life, while cutting back on dozens of small purchases that add little value. The difference is alignment. Your money begins to reflect what actually matters to you.
Less Financial Stress, Less Mental Clutter
When our spending becomes intentional, our financial stress often decreases. This is not because our income has changed, but rather that we are no longer spending money on things that bring little joy.
Money stops being a source of low-level anxiety where we worry about not having enough of it and into a tool that supports our life. As 2026 progresses, the goal does not need to be spending less for its own sake. It is about spending in ways that genuinely bring joy, and letting go of everything else.
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